Booking night and the contract money
After speirin night,
the next important night was known variously as Booking Night, or
Contract Night.
This night, traditionally a Saturday, was when
friends and family gathered to celebrate the forthcoming marriage
with a feast. Once the festivities were under way, the bridegroom
and the Best Man, known here as the Groomsman or geud-man, left
the party to visit the local church session-clerk. There, the bride
and groom's names were entered into the session book
This over, the men would then visit the minister
to pay their pawn-money or contract money.
This was almost like
an insurance policy, paid to guarantee the conduct of the couple
between that night and the wedding day. If their behaviour was "correct",
the money was returned.
I have wondered whether this pawn-money - a considerable
amount to a poor Orcadian family of yesteryear - was the Church's
way of stamping out an earlier ceremony, known to have taken place
further north in Shetland.
There, Booking Night was also the night the betrothed
couple slept together as a seal of the contract. It was only after
the Booking Night union that the couple were expected to abstain
from further "intimate contact" until the night of their
wedding.
No documented evidence of this custom survives
in Orkney, but given the close parallels between Orkney and Shetland
custom, it seems likely that it took place in some form in Orkney,
perhaps prompting the local clergy to instigate a means of discouraging
it.
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